He is just not that into you

lisijuan 发表于 14-5-8 13:30
为什么，看不下去了。

还没看完，但文章大概意思就是，no reason, so move on, sisters! Don't waste any time.

针对why he hasn't called me,最后一节来了：

A guy you went out with once hasn’t called you in two weeks
Do you:
1.        Jump to the conclusion that he is just really busy, lost your phone number, and was struck in the skull, and is now suffering from short-term memory loss, and you should call him.
2.        Quit your job, stay at home, call the telephone company to make sure your phone works, and wait for him to call
3.        Realize he is just not that into you and move on with your life.
Good for you. You answered 3. We knew it was easy-but doesn’t it feel good to make the right choice.

Blair 发表于 14-5-9 12:07
针对why he hasn't called me,最后一节来了：

A guy you went out with once hasn’t called you in two ...

斑斑，就没有了吗，有好帖子我会继续跟上的

lisijuan 发表于 14-5-10 00:33
斑斑，就没有了吗，有好帖子我会继续跟上的

还有的，这只是第一篇章节。后面的我还没有开始看。这本书倒是词汇易懂的，就是看多了，比较消极

Blair 发表于 14-5-10 09:51
还有的，这只是第一篇章节。后面的我还没有开始看。这本书倒是词汇易懂的，就是看多了，比较消极

等你。。。

我作为一个爷们听这句话感觉很自卑

深林飞帆 发表于 14-5-10 23:51
我作为一个爷们听这句话感觉很自卑

是不是从爷们角度看，这些都是事实呢

lisijuan 发表于 14-5-10 22:45
等你。。。

今天的来了

It is so simple
From this moment on, right now, as you read this, make this solemn vow about your future romantic relationships: no more murky, no more gray, no more unidentified, and no more undeclared. And if at all possible, try to know someone as best you can before you get naked with them.

Solemn, 庄严的
Vow，发誓，誓言
murky，黑暗的
undeclared， 未申报的,未宣布的

Blair 发表于 14-5-11 22:48
今天的来了

It is so simple

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今天看的这个章节是 He is just not that into you if he doesn't want to marry you

Just remember this. Every man you have ever dated who has said he doesn't want to get married or doesn't believe in marriage, or has "issues" with marriage, will rest assured, someday be married. It just will never be with you. Because he is not really saying he doesn't want to get married. He is saying he doesn't want to get married to you. There is nothing wrong with wanting to get married. You shouldn't feel ashamed, needy, or "unliberated" for wanting that. So make sure from the start you pick a guy who shares your views for the future, and if not, move on as quickly as you can. Big plans require big action.

Rest assured, 放心
unliberated, 未经解放的